New here and warming up to self bondage

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Hello everyone. 
I've lurked this forum off and on over the last few years, but finally decided to join. 

I have a strong burning desire to do self bondage when given the chance, (room mate out for the day) but oh boy is it difficult for me. 

Obviously I'm nervous about getting stuck or getting discovered. Sure. 
It sucks that my body has awful flexibility. How the heck do you get your arms together behind your back? haha 
I dunno about others, but for me, a big problem that comes up is that my nose or something will itch while bound, but I cannot reach it to scratch it. That sucks.... 
And lastly, it's hard because it does get boring fast. 

I have very little experience with self bondage, but I'd like to change that. I want nothing more than to set a timer or ice lock for 4+ hours and just enjoy it, but between boredom and random body itches, it's just hard. 


I do need to get some proper bondage gear. Like a cute outfit. Are there any tips or tricks to finding quality bondage gear? So many of the gags or other toys I've found seem so cheap and low quality. 

Also, this is something I've been wondering about for a long time. What kind of leather cuffs are these? The ones for the ankles are a dual strap style or whatever this would be called and can seemingly perfect fit with leg irons. Same with the wrist cuffs, the rivets or whatever leave a perfect slot for the handcuffs to clamp over. What kind of cuffs are these and where can I find them?


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Welcome to the forum. Those cuffs and other amazing bondage gear can be found on here http://hottbonds.com/ I have a lot of items from them that have lasted me years.
Welcome!

Getting arms behind your back as in locking your hands behind your back should be doable for everybody, touching elbows is rare. There are very few males that can do that, definitely not me and I'm "above average" flexible, lots of women can't do it either.

Quality of toys can be hit or miss, I bought so many crappy stuff with a few lucky jewels in there that it might have actually been cheaper to just go for a brand name shop and have it hand made out of real leather. 20€ for a ballgag head harness? Yes maybe, can be crap. My favourite one was more like 60€ and has real thick leather that will outlast everything else.
добрый вечер, уже несколько лет наблюдаю за этим сайтом, решила тоже написать. подскажите пожалуйста еще техники самобондажа через одежду

Good evening, I’ve been watching this site for several years now, and I decided to write too. please tell me more techniques for self-bondage through clothes
(This post was last modified: 05 Jun 2024, 23:49 by Like Ra.)