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Hi Everyone,
I have had a fantasy for ages now about hiring a female escorr that specializes in domination.
I want that feeling of being tied up helpless and fucked in the arse while made to do anything she ask as her slave.
I have yet to do this but was looking the other day at escorts that specialize in this sort of stuff and seen one who looked good but found out she was a trans. This got me thinking.... well she still looks like a women and i guess would be better then a strap on as a real cock.
Anyone done this before or have any advise on which u should go with?
Thanks in advance 😉
James
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I have but it was a trans mistress that specialized in spandex encasement. A real cock was way out of my comfort zone at the time so “she” used a strapon on me. It was a great experience. I booked a two hour session and we just sat and talked for the first 20 minutes. She asked me about my likes and dislikes. Imagine a 6 ft tall in heels, spandex clad figure chatting about encasement, bondage, etc. The rest of the time flew by and I saw her a couple times more before work took me other places. Be careful but it is worth it!
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MTF trans = she. Not "she", she 😉
I've been a pro domme myself, stopped because most clients wanting a trans domme aren't truly in it for the experience, just the parts below and the 2 milk bags on the chest.
When looking for a pro. don't automatically go for "young and pretty". Chances are they have never mentored under anyone, and you put yourself at risk. Check to see if they have been mentored at that age, and by whom, and check. Also don't go to one solely based on price. The ones that charge more are generally for the most part the more experienced and better ones. Also check if they are trained in CPR and first aid (yes, this is important!)
Also let the domme know of any health issues. They are not there to judge, they are there to provide you an experience. Your safety is paramount. For instance if you use an inhaler etc for asthma, the domme will keep that nearby in reach just in case.
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(30 Jun 2018, 21:08 )vanessa_fetish Wrote: MTF trans = she. Not "she", she 😉
I've been a pro domme myself, stopped because most clients wanting a trans domme aren't truly in it for the experience, just the parts below and the 2 milk bags on the chest.
When looking for a pro. don't automatically go for "young and pretty". Chances are they have never mentored under anyone, and you put yourself at risk. Check to see if they have been mentored at that age, and by whom, and check. Also don't go to one solely based on price. The ones that charge more are generally for the most part the more experienced and better ones. Also check if they are trained in CPR and first aid (yes, this is important!)
Also let the domme know of any health issues. They are not there to judge, they are there to provide you an experience. Your safety is paramount. For instance if you use an inhaler etc for asthma, the domme will keep that nearby in reach just in case.
Apologies Vanessa. I somewhat lamely tried to make a distinction because some people know that I have been to a biologically female dom too. And now I've read your bio so I feel doubly like an idiot. I know better so I hope you will forgive me, it won't happen again.
Your comments are spot on of course. I was so nervous the first time that if Mistress Ling hadn't have been so experienced, that session could have easily gone badly wrong. It is certainly one thing to fantasize about being used by trans dom and another thing to be helplessly tied up and really used by her no matter how "young and pretty."
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(30 Jun 2018, 23:16 )bondagetom1 Wrote: Your comments are spot on of course. I was so nervous the first time that if Mistress Ling hadn't have been so experienced, that session could have easily gone badly wrong. It is certainly one thing to fantasize about being used by trans dom and another thing to be helplessly tied up and really used by her no matter how "young and pretty."
No worries 😊
Just this weekend friend went to a new domme here, instead of one of the usual. He paid cheap ($200) for 90 minutes. Well, she didn't know what she was doing, and has caused some serious damage to him. She didn't know how to use a flogger properly, and has now caused some kidney damage to him.
