MJSB-10/2024 (not Bingo) - Suspension fail and warning
I thought long and hard about sharing this session, especially after what happened to @Anne when their self-bondage went badly wrong . My misadventure was not nearly so bad, though it could have been, and I didn't require assistance or anything as dramatic as Anne went through, but... when I looked back, especially when I viewed the video, things could have been a whole lot worse.
I contacted Anne seeking advice and thoughts on what to do, especially as I felt so bad for what had happened to them and that my own misadventure was rather tame compared. Anne was wonderful, as always, and it transpired that we both used our video recordings to analyse what went wrong and try to learn from our mistakes (plus Anne got a world exclusive preview of what I've shared below 😁 ).
I hope @Anne might choose to add some of their own thoughts to this post, as we both recognised the same 'signs' and 'red flags' that contribute to a session going wrong.
Anyway, I shall share my 'Suspension fail' in all it's ugly (to me) detail as a kind of 'how not to' video.
Spoiler alert: There are no falls or broken equipment in this video, just an endless list of all the things you shouldn't do in self-bondage and the sight of me doing them!
Equipment:
Rope hoist (rated to 250kg) with the 'jam-cleat' removed
Suspension strap (rated to 2 metric tons) around main roof truss/beam
Screw D-shackles (rated to 200kg)
Rope
Ankle boots
Pantyhose body suit
XS Snake chastity cage
Purple butt plug
XXL Tights (for pantyhose single glove)
Clover style nipple clamps with weights (125g each)
Short corset/waist cincher
The session:
After a wonderful 'home-alone' time, all the fun of playing the 'Bingo Challenge' and a lot of chastity, I was getting a bit giddy with lust and also over-confident in my self-bondage abilities. Why this combination always seems to lead me into doing something stupid I'll never quite know, nor why I never recognise that I'm heading for trouble. Whatever, my thoughts turned to one of my ultimate fantasies - inverted suspension self-bondage.
I keep revisiting this fantasy and almost every time I fail, so I'm not at all clear in my own mind as to why I try, try again, and again... There was also another, darker, part of me that had surfaced after all the fun and pleasure of my adventure - my need for some kind of 'punishment'. This part of my psychology is very strange; I really don't like pain (ask anyone how I react when I accidently bash myself or cut a finger - I'm a big baby!) but sometimes a switch inside me 'clicks' over to a new setting and I find myself craving something harsher. Don't mis-read this, I never, ever, fantasise about real pain, I don't even get turned on my videos with spanking and such in them (they actually turn me off), but just occasionally I need something, and it's usually my poor nipples that suffer.
So, the plan was that I would hoist myself up by my ankles, with clover clamps on my nipples and 'enjoy' a few minutes of 'air-time' with my wrists bound behind me, I even wanted to try a pantyhose single glove in this position.
Watch the unfolding failure....
Source: https://www.bitchute.com/video/FndDQOMZlNAs/
Disclaimer - self-bondage is dangerous, don't try this at home!
Additional: No MJ was (badly) harmed in the making of this video 😋
What went well?
I survived! - things could have gone so much worse, and very quickly, so I am very thankful they didn't I have lived and MUST learn. Simple as that.
Clover clamps - OK, this is my dark side peeping out, but they really did work! I'd judged the cord lengths just right and the weights pulled perfectly as my head was leaving the floor. My nipples still ache with the memory of what I put them through and perversely I get a thrill from that memory! Oh dear....
Face-down semi-suspension - this was much more comfortable, sustainable and safer, yet it made me feel very helpless indeed. I really want to explore this further and plan to try more scenes with only me legs suspended.
Second camera angle - I liked the images from the camera that looked upwards, in close-up. It really captured how I experienced the suspension (or at least the good bits).
What could be improved?
Listening to my internal alarms - so many red flags, so many warning signs, so why did I ignore them and put myself at such a risk? I gave myself a long hard talking to after this session and vowed to be much more reactive to my common sense in the future...yeah, right, like that's worked before!
Better and safer hoisting suspension rig - sounds obvious but I need to make changes if I'm ever to try this again (and deep down I know I will). Maybe my rope hoist has had it's day and I need something better? Chain hoists are more controllable, but I'm wary of electric winches and the risk of failure/cut-out.
Better and safer leg suspension technique - I vow not to do what I did again, that rope rig was wrong and potentially dangerous. I have ideas and will be thinking and planning.
Don't be stupid, don't get carried away in the moment - I must keep reminding myself of this, to overcome the insane urges that made me carry on regardless!
Better video images - If I do get this scene right, then I want to capture it properly on video. That will need better lighting and maybe a different location. I'm thinking this one through.
Don't be stupid, stick to the plan, don't improvise at the last minute - keep on reminding myself!!!!!
Another session, but one that I think mostly failed and could have resulted in bad things for me. I post this in the hope it makes others stop and think a bit more, before they commit to self-bondage session. Plan, plan, plan. Check, check again, and again. Stick to the script, don't embellish or improvise. Listen to your mind, if it's screaming that something isn't right - stop! Don't let your libido rule your head.
And, above all, remember... PLAY SAFE!
MJ
I thought long and hard about sharing this session, especially after what happened to @Anne when their self-bondage went badly wrong . My misadventure was not nearly so bad, though it could have been, and I didn't require assistance or anything as dramatic as Anne went through, but... when I looked back, especially when I viewed the video, things could have been a whole lot worse.
I contacted Anne seeking advice and thoughts on what to do, especially as I felt so bad for what had happened to them and that my own misadventure was rather tame compared. Anne was wonderful, as always, and it transpired that we both used our video recordings to analyse what went wrong and try to learn from our mistakes (plus Anne got a world exclusive preview of what I've shared below 😁 ).
I hope @Anne might choose to add some of their own thoughts to this post, as we both recognised the same 'signs' and 'red flags' that contribute to a session going wrong.
Anyway, I shall share my 'Suspension fail' in all it's ugly (to me) detail as a kind of 'how not to' video.
Spoiler alert: There are no falls or broken equipment in this video, just an endless list of all the things you shouldn't do in self-bondage and the sight of me doing them!
Equipment:
Rope hoist (rated to 250kg) with the 'jam-cleat' removed
Suspension strap (rated to 2 metric tons) around main roof truss/beam
Screw D-shackles (rated to 200kg)
Rope
Ankle boots
Pantyhose body suit
XS Snake chastity cage
Purple butt plug
XXL Tights (for pantyhose single glove)
Clover style nipple clamps with weights (125g each)
Short corset/waist cincher
The session:
After a wonderful 'home-alone' time, all the fun of playing the 'Bingo Challenge' and a lot of chastity, I was getting a bit giddy with lust and also over-confident in my self-bondage abilities. Why this combination always seems to lead me into doing something stupid I'll never quite know, nor why I never recognise that I'm heading for trouble. Whatever, my thoughts turned to one of my ultimate fantasies - inverted suspension self-bondage.
I keep revisiting this fantasy and almost every time I fail, so I'm not at all clear in my own mind as to why I try, try again, and again... There was also another, darker, part of me that had surfaced after all the fun and pleasure of my adventure - my need for some kind of 'punishment'. This part of my psychology is very strange; I really don't like pain (ask anyone how I react when I accidently bash myself or cut a finger - I'm a big baby!) but sometimes a switch inside me 'clicks' over to a new setting and I find myself craving something harsher. Don't mis-read this, I never, ever, fantasise about real pain, I don't even get turned on my videos with spanking and such in them (they actually turn me off), but just occasionally I need something, and it's usually my poor nipples that suffer.
So, the plan was that I would hoist myself up by my ankles, with clover clamps on my nipples and 'enjoy' a few minutes of 'air-time' with my wrists bound behind me, I even wanted to try a pantyhose single glove in this position.
Watch the unfolding failure....
Source: https://www.bitchute.com/video/FndDQOMZlNAs/
Disclaimer - self-bondage is dangerous, don't try this at home!
Additional: No MJ was (badly) harmed in the making of this video 😋
What went well?
I survived! - things could have gone so much worse, and very quickly, so I am very thankful they didn't I have lived and MUST learn. Simple as that.
Clover clamps - OK, this is my dark side peeping out, but they really did work! I'd judged the cord lengths just right and the weights pulled perfectly as my head was leaving the floor. My nipples still ache with the memory of what I put them through and perversely I get a thrill from that memory! Oh dear....
Face-down semi-suspension - this was much more comfortable, sustainable and safer, yet it made me feel very helpless indeed. I really want to explore this further and plan to try more scenes with only me legs suspended.
Second camera angle - I liked the images from the camera that looked upwards, in close-up. It really captured how I experienced the suspension (or at least the good bits).
What could be improved?
Listening to my internal alarms - so many red flags, so many warning signs, so why did I ignore them and put myself at such a risk? I gave myself a long hard talking to after this session and vowed to be much more reactive to my common sense in the future...yeah, right, like that's worked before!
Better and safer hoisting suspension rig - sounds obvious but I need to make changes if I'm ever to try this again (and deep down I know I will). Maybe my rope hoist has had it's day and I need something better? Chain hoists are more controllable, but I'm wary of electric winches and the risk of failure/cut-out.
Better and safer leg suspension technique - I vow not to do what I did again, that rope rig was wrong and potentially dangerous. I have ideas and will be thinking and planning.
Don't be stupid, don't get carried away in the moment - I must keep reminding myself of this, to overcome the insane urges that made me carry on regardless!
Better video images - If I do get this scene right, then I want to capture it properly on video. That will need better lighting and maybe a different location. I'm thinking this one through.
Don't be stupid, stick to the plan, don't improvise at the last minute - keep on reminding myself!!!!!
Another session, but one that I think mostly failed and could have resulted in bad things for me. I post this in the hope it makes others stop and think a bit more, before they commit to self-bondage session. Plan, plan, plan. Check, check again, and again. Stick to the script, don't embellish or improvise. Listen to your mind, if it's screaming that something isn't right - stop! Don't let your libido rule your head.
And, above all, remember... PLAY SAFE!
MJ
