Hi - not just me then.....

[Interestinglyunique]

Hi Everyone, Thankyou for letting me join this community.

Being a man I always joked to people that I had 'great legs...for a woman!'. Last couple of years I was able to find out if that was actually true! I actually do think my legs are more like female legs than mens anyway - I'm quite slim. So this is actually an advantage when wearing female clothes. 

Ok, so I've always, always been massively aroused by very dark fantasies (torture, discipline, punishment) I'VE NO IDEA WHY! I'm a very gentle natured, kind sort of person in normal life. Eventually I just dived in and tied myself up at home, why is it so much fun??!! And I honestly never thought I'd say it, but the cross dressing is a blast too - why?! Don't know, but getting to the point I don't really care!

Anyway thankyou everyone, looking forward to reading all your posts!  

(If I just vanish one day, apologies in advance - I sometimes have this idea that I shouldn't do any of this kind of thing)

[B1u3]

Very warm welcome here, and you can stay here for sure 😊

[Tinker D]

Welcome to our group.
Stay as long as you like, and please share your thoughts.
I am not slim as you are, but I too have legs and with the right nylons and outfit, they look great.

[QuietnSilent]

Welcome, I still tend to ghost around even though I finally created an account lol. Enjoy your stay 😊.

[Interestinglyunique]

Welcome to our group.
Stay as long as you like, and please share your thoughts.
I am not slim as you are, but I too have legs and with the right nylons and outfit, they look great.

Curves are good!

[Interestinglyunique]

Thankyou everyone for the replies. It means a lot to me to connect with others who have similar feelings, because in all other parts of life I wouldn't open up about these things.

Thankyou !

[Like Ra]

Welcome aboard!

I sometimes have this idea that I shouldn't do any of this kind of thing

Why? It's neither harmful, nor illegal, it is fun, and you can learn something about yourself, right?

Usually guilt comes with orgasms, or when you spend money on "useless fun", when you need them for something more useful (the former multiplies the guilt for the latter 😁 ) But spending money on alcohol or cigarettes is very harmful (also for others), much more useless - the bought product disappears in the toilet (polluting your body) or in the air (polluting both). See? It's just a matter of a proper comparison...

[Tinker D]

I would rather spend money on Pantyhose than cigarettes.

As for Curves, my curves somehow got to my belly, instead of my butt where I wanted.

[Interestinglyunique]

Welcome aboard!

I sometimes have this idea that I shouldn't do any of this kind of thing

Why? It's neither harmful, nor illegal, it is fun, and you can learn something about yourself, right?

Usually guilt comes with orgasms, or when you spend money on "useless fun", when you need them for something more useful (the former multiplies the guilt for the latter 😁 ) But spending money on alcohol or cigarettes is very harmful (also for others), much more useless - the bought product disappears in the toilet (polluting your body) or in the air (polluting both). See? It's just a matter of a proper comparison...

Thanks for that, I know I'm still in the process of embracing my inner kink!

[Like Ra]

Yep, and another thing. Society is generally OK with alcohol and cigarettes, but usually not OK with playing with genders. BUT! One more important thing: nobody cares (or at least should care) what happens behind the closed doors, provided it's legal. Doing things in public is a different story and very society dependant.

In other words:

Kinks are OK, unless illegal, harmful or too disturbing for others 😉

Under "disturbing" I mean - "Use the common sense", just like for everything else. Some clothes or styles are considered inappropriate even for girls and even in the rather tolerant Nordic European countries (NL, BE, DE, SE, NO, FI, DK).