Hi - not just me then.....

[Tinker D]

Sure, like me.
I drive almost every day, from theaters to bars to resteraunts. I wear my work clothing. But at nite or my day off, I get to wear anything I want. Sure, you can call it anything you want, crossdressing, free style or whatever. I like clothing.
I like pantyhoes, bras and soft panties. And for the most part, I can wear them at home and at work. Well, the bra is somewhat hard to wear on the warmer days, but I do like the way they feel on my skin.
But, if I wore my jeans skirt, to a resterant or bar, then that could cause a problem. So I wear my skirts and tees at home when I can and that's it.
Do I look like a woman? Sometimes. Do I try to look like a female? Not really, but at times I do look good.
In short, I like to dress. I like clothing. Add some self bondage and I'm good for the weekend.
I love my kink. Sometimes I dress up every evening, sometimes I go for months doing nothing. But I love my kink.

I think you should too.

You know, you can keep your kink a Secret. There is no law that you have to make your kink public.

[Like Ra]

You know, you can keep your kink a Secret.

No-no-no.... Share with us, please! 😉

[Tinker D]

Well yea.....
You can share and be open with us. After all, you just made 2 friends.

[Interestinglyunique]

Ha ha yes this is true thanks - good to 'meet' you both. The actual female dressing up part (which is pretty new for me) strangely doesn't really trouble me (strange because I literally never had any desire to do this before a bout a year ago). It's the bondage/ S&M side of things that I struggle to get my head around. It seems a bit cruel/sadistic to be so aroused by the thought of females in such awful torturous predicaments - but if I'm truly honest with myself it has always really turned me on (ever since I was a young kid).

WHY?? I don't think I'll ever know. I know too from girlfriends I've had etc that many women really get turned on by exactly the same things. Do you think it is just human nature?

I think the dressing up has given me a way to be the dom and the sub at the same time (does this sound familiar?). It's a really powerful combination for me.

Sorry I'm rambling, I tend to analyse! Good to meet you anyway.....

I can be quite unsociable and over anxious sometimes so please excuse me if i come across a bit 'prickly'! As for going public, yes I agree and I'm realising that these things will probably always be in the private realm for me (and maybe anonymous people on online forums) and hopefully a private partner if I can find one.... 😊 😊

[Tinker D]

Ok, not be picky, but bondage can be fun as well as art.
If you pick bondage as a form to hurt and kill, that's one thing.
But if you bondage as part of love, that's a whole new game right there.
Here are some examples.
A simple pair of nylons wrapped around the wrists is a form of simple love bondage. It doesn't hurt, it's easy to get out of. But it does add a bit of excitement to one or both.
For solo play, self bondage, the act or art of tieing yourself up can be a real powerfull turn on.
Bd, sm, bdsm and everything in between can be for everyone and for no one.
I do my SB/CD by myself. It's fun for me and is like to figure things out.

Give me a problem and I'll figure out how to do or build it.
That's me... Tinker D

[Interestinglyunique]

Thankyou Tinker D - fun sounds like a good way of looking at things. Ok I'll sign off for now chat to you nice people soon!

[Tinker D]

Ok, take care.
And remember, you always welcome here.
See you soon