Actual *forced* feminization?

[Like Ra]

In a world where a lot of women are disgusted even by the mere idea of a guy not acting manly

... and men as well ... "This is a man's world" 😉

I have yet to find a single actual source of forcefem.

Real-world you mean? Of course not, because it's illegal.

if one were curious about feminization but would never actually go through with it on his own, what (if any) options are there that would actually force-feminize him?

OK, so, now we are not talking about "forced feminization" "generally", but rather about "willing but afraid of feminization". Huge difference from the former!

Let's "dissect" this case. Again, let's forget about the reasons. (Reasons must be discussed with the psychologist when someone is about to transition).

"I want to become a smart pretty sexy girl, but I'm afraid of this". The first obvious question is "What are your fears?"

Questions (general questions to consider, feel free to add more):

- Imagine yourself on a warm uninhabited island with lots of food and water. Would you still like to be (forcefully) feminized?
- Imagine yourself on a warm uninhabited island with lots of food, water and a crashed ship with various women's clothes. Would you still like to be (forcefully) feminized?
-  Imagine yourself on a warm uninhabited island with lots of food, water, a crashed ship with various women's clothes and one handsome active gay, who really likes you.  Would you still like to be (forcefully) feminized?
-  Imagine yourself on a warm uninhabited island with lots of food, water, a crashed ship with various women's clothes and one pretty girl, who really likes you.  Would you still like to be (forcefully) feminized?
- Imagine yourself in a society with no "gender expectations". Everybody can wear any kind of clothes, make-up, be nude, etc. Would you still like to be (forcefully) feminized?
- Imagine, that you met a magician, who offers you to immediately and irreversibly change you into a smart pretty sexy girl (for free), and also change everybody else's memory, documents, Internet records to your new identity. Would you agree to such an offer?
- Right after an orgasm, would you still like to be (forcefully) feminized?

All these questions have one thing in common, so they are not random.

Real-world you mean? Of course not, because it's illegal.

So is jaywalking. Or smoking pot. Or orchestrating a genocide. Yet here we are...

Technically, almost all BDSM is illegal: there are no laws that allow people to beat or imprison each other, even if they both explicitly consent to that beforehand.

Also, "yes" to all. 😋

[Like Ra]

Also, "yes" to all. 😋

And you are still talking about "forced"? 😂

[Like Ra]

Let's stay within the magician metaphor.

Imagine, that you met a magician, who offers you to change you into a smart pretty sexy girl (for free), and change everybody else's memory, documents, Internet records to your new identity. The magician offers two options:

1. The reality switches immediately. You become a girl, and you forget that you ever were a boy.

2. The reality changes ssssloooowwwwllly. Small step by small step. You have no control over the changes. Your body changes - your breast and hips inflate, waist narrows. Your face changes. Light makeup suddenly appears when you are aeady in public, without your noticing. Your clothes changes - first by replacing male version with female version, then, becoming purely female. Your hair changes. Your penis shrinks. You catch up puzzled and questioning glimpses, but, being polite, nobody asks you directly, what's going on, yet you feel extremely embarrassed and scared by those changes. You never know what and when it happens next. Though, little can you hide or do. And your breasts are aeady poking prominently. And mascara is very visible. Suddenly, midway, on a crowded street, on in the bus, your sneakers got replaced with high heels, and your trousers with knee-length skirt. People around turn heads, your blush, sweat, try to walk in those heels, and not to stumble and fall...

Which way would you choose?

Also, "yes" to all. 😋

And you are still talking about "forced"? 😂

I grew up in a super-conservative country - there are sooo many mental blocks to overcome that I'd never be able to defeat them on my own. :'(

As for your question: #1 would be perfect. But we don't have that (here, witches witches witches... 😉 ), so in absence of #1, I'd also settle for #2 or #3 or #4, or whichever option is available. Not in this for humiliation purposes, but for the Fight Club-esque "Do this and show progress, or ELSE." O_o

So, a few thoughts that I would like to submit to the larger audience.

Instead of FORCED fem, please consider instead more like, inspired / incentivized / competitive fem. The questions this raises are what types of motivations work to push feminization? 

What have we seen before, in particular, here at likera.com?  I can think of two examples to draw from. 
The first is the fascinating self bondage Challenge Bingo that Anne, Madjack, and Kyral the Cool played about a year ago. I would love to hear from any of those players about their thoughts on what went well and what could improve.

The other example I find interesting is Bellmar’s Bambi contracts. I would love to hear from anyone who participated in these contracts. In particular, how they went, what went well, and what could be improved.  There seemed to be a surge of excitement at first but I haven’t seen anything for quite some time. 

I would love to get some responses before looking at a plan of action. The responses may drive or veto some ideas. 
and here is a picture to think about.
   

[Like Ra]

The other example I find interesting is Bellmar’s Bambi contracts. I would love to hear from anyone who participated in these contracts. In particular, how they went, what went well, and what could be improved.

Just to quickly answer this one. None of Bellmar's files worked for me, regardless of the amount of time I spent on them. All my ideas are in Bellmar's thread.

[Like Ra]

As for your question: #1 would be perfect.
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Not in this for humiliation purposes

Very interesting! Quite the opposite to what could be inferred from your first posts and the links you referred to (as perfectly pinpointed by @stationcashplease !) So, asking questions is VERY useful 😉

But we don't have that (here, witches witches witches... 😉 )

It might not be what you think of it 😉 We have a thread on it: https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=4113

I grew up in a super-conservative country - there are sooo many mental blocks to overcome that I'd never be able to defeat them on my own.

And this is the direction where I was going with my questions. Because ... well... most of us has this "Nooooo! I can't do that!!!! What would they say?? What would they do??? I must not be seen wearing this!!!" While, in fact, it's not about "them", but about "I", whatever it is. And this is where the actual magic happens.

The other example I find interesting is Bellmar’s Bambi contracts. I would love to hear from anyone who participated in these contracts. In particular, how they went, what went well, and what could be improved.

Just to quickly answer this one. None of Bellmar's files worked for me, regardless of the amount of time I spent on them. All my ideas are in Bellmar's thread.

@Like Ra I remember stumbling across a link to another thread where you did a "public challenge" here, that you would do "xyz" if other people did "abc"... (I don't remember what it was anymore, before my membership time here I believe) ?

I know your were only held to it by your honor & community peer pressure.. but if @Gabriel would feel compelled. might be worth a go?

@Alice luv the pic  💓

@Gabriel since this has moved a bit out of my domain (I do not need to be coerced to be fem), I'll be in the captive audience here. 
However, perhaps so you do not completely loose faith:

quite rare to find a woman who isn't just okay with a feminine, crossdressing man as a partner, but actually supports that. 

 

I'm AMAB & NB & not a man, but I have been together (relationships) with three cis women, who have been more than just supportive, but they also knew what they were getting into before we became SOs, which probably made it easier. They are out there. I actually find it much more difficult finding a supportive guy (who is interested in more than just something warm & fleeting).  

Ditto for the suggestion of finding friends...

There are several on the roulette site I was referring to, who have found local irl CNC play partners there or at local munches.  I can't think of any for forced fem (the ones I know aeady are fem), but for pet play, bondage etc. One was very shy for quite a few years & has lit up like a Japanese Cherry tree in the spring after finding someone who gets her, really neat to have seen. So it is possible, just may take some time to find someone compatible for you, your desires & needs. I personally find it easier to meet people in more safe social irl situations than online, but we are all different.

@Gabriel

I read through the "sissy tasks" link you posted, somewhere on literotica, someone used that (or vice versa) to write a full length - I think multi chapter - story. I did a quick search with feminization+magazine with title & text selected, but was not able to find it (quite few results, couldn't go through them all). If you spend a bit of time there, you might be able to. I think you would enjoy it from what I remember, very much a forced fem story. I think I read it early during the covid lockdown (was reading stories often there during that time).