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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 28. Expecting unexpected and randomness in selfbondage and bondage sessions

See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories. Another point. Expectations. Expectations is like prejudice (Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice). Very unfair, very painful: “You have not met my expectations”, “I expected more from you”. Did we both agree on the list of your … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 28. Expecting unexpected and randomness in selfbondage and bondage sessions”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 26. Incentives and neighbours

See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories. Indeed, neighbourhood is convenient and as I learned later this is what our neighbours thought as well. They were afraid that I would foist my “friendship” on their daughter, e.g, over the balcony šŸ˜‰ Same age, same school, parallel classes. Later … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 26. Incentives and neighbours”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 25. Incentives, pretexts and excuses

See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories. Two more points. Given you are a fetishist and you love (self)bondage (since you are on this site ;-), consider you need to learn or do something (e.g. to learn a new language). What would be the best incentives for you? … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 25. Incentives, pretexts and excuses”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 24. Fetish clothes and embarrassing moments

See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories. Another point. Last years I have to concentrate on what I’m wearing and where. For example, going to martial arts trainings I have to “explicitly” check if I’m not wearing pantyhose and no other underwear. I got used to wear pantyhose … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 24. Fetish clothes and embarrassing moments”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 23. More naked than bare

See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories. Another point. Indeed some clothes make you look and feel more naked than if there were no clothes at all. Strange feeling… … 15 years ago a daughter of my boss came to the office. I can’t say we knew each … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 23. More naked than bare”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 22. Mud-walking and bodily fluids

See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories. Many-many years ago I’ve read somewhere that men should at least once a year crawl in mud to let go frustration and self-importance. The Dutch have a hobby – mud-walking (wadlopen) – four hour walking from the mainland of the Netherlands … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 22. Mud-walking and bodily fluids”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 18. Gags

See all chapters and related articles here. Another point – gags. I can’t imagine bondage without a gag. No gag – no bondage. It does not even matter what for gag I have in my mouth: a short rubber tube, a rubber ball, a condom filled with wrapped up pantyhose, a latex dildo or a … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 18. Gags”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 17. B, (D), S&M and sport

See all chapters and related articles here. Another point. For some reason physical culture, physical education, physical training, or, simply put, gym classes are completely left out in BDSM literature. If I’m wrong, please give me a couple of examples. It would be interesting to know what they recommend. However, the importance of stamina, flexibility, … Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 17. B, (D), S&M and sport”