his-lil-girl Wrote:When I was very young I would place myself in bondage a lot.. I'm thinking I started around 7 or 8 (?) I tied myself to trees with nylon knee highs that were pre-knotted.. and it escalated to doing it to sleep in... arms behind my back and ankles. It got to the point where I couldn't sleep unless I was tied (and I still love being tied to sleep although self bondage is very difficult now)
There was something insanely exciting even at that young age about being in the woods tied up...

I'm glad to hear that it was at the same age as me for others.. I always think back with wonder, I had no idea really what I was doing.. but I just know that I really really loved it.. not just from the excitement angle but it was a comfort thing too!

BondageToy Wrote:I started tying myself up when I was in first or second grade so about the same time. I also started mummifying myself in plastic wrap for bedtime at around ten or so

lesleyinheels Wrote:I used to get tied-up by my sisters until my mother made them stop. So probably around 6-7 or 8, I started tying my my legs with a jump rope or whatever shoe laces, cords, etc. I could find lying around. I used to make loops and put my hands in them behind my back and pretend to be tied-up.

It wasn't until I was 11 or 12 that I ingeniously came up with twine wrist-cuffs (the knots were too small and tight to untie) that I would fasten around each wrist. Then I'd lock them together behind my back with my legs tied. It was very exciting.

If I'd discovered high-heels and pantyhose at that time, .......well......no telling where that would have led.

Elainebdtv Wrote:I was around 13 or 14. My first attempts at self bondage were fakey and very crude. I still remember how I got started. I was sitting at my desk on my bedroom. I had just finished pulling an old wire-bound notebook apart for the scrap paper. I held one end of the wire in each hand and twisted it around my wrists behind my back.

tiemeupnow: Wrote:I started around 14, that was the breakthrough year for me. I had always felt the compulsion to be tied up and gagged; ever since I could remember.

Tyd_up Wrote:Sometime before I was seven. I remember rolling myself up in a blanket during Saturday morning cartoons and playing that I couldn't get loose.

The first few times I was tied up it was by my father. He tied my wrists and ankles together so I had to lie on my back with my arms and legs up. I loved it and didn't want loose but he never left me like that for more than a minute or two. I'm sure that happened before I started school.

When I was in kindergarten or the first grade a friend and I played a bondage version of hide and seek. Instead of counting to 100, the person who was it was tied up and had to escape while the other hid. We always got loose. I boasted that I could get loose from anything so my friend's father put me in a military tie with my hands behind my back and a rope attaching them to my neck. I couldn't get loose from that but it was dinner time so they had to let me go.

MelodyBound Wrote:I started at about 9. I remember tying myself up at about 11. I was rolling around on the floor bound and gagged and came for the first time! I was terrified! Didn't know what happened! Needless to say I was hooked then! Lol

CrossdressingRalph Wrote:Not sure the exact age, but well before puberty. I remember playing a variant of hide-and-seek with my friends that involved getting tied to a chair if you were caught, and for some reason I was just such a terrible player that I always got caught early and had to spend the rest of the game tied up.

boomer44 Wrote:I was around 11 or 12. I used to tie myself up in my mother's one piece bathing suit to the bed post... until She caught me. That was the end of that for a long time.

A1Astar Wrote:I was so young, I don't remember the first time. I do remember playing with the neighbourhood kids, games like "Cowboys and Indians" or "cops and robbers" anything that involved being chased and subdued. I always got excited when watching TV and a character was tied up. I would sneak off to my room to try and imitate the way in which they were tied. Then somewhere along the way I discovered that adding the bondage to masturbation made it more intense. From that day to this one, bondage has always been included in my masturbation. I remember having my aunt walk into my room while I was using a belt to tie my ankles together. I tried to explain it away by saying the buckle was stuck and I was trying to fix it. It's definitely not something I learned from anyone else, but was seemingly always part of me. In fact growing up I was just sure there was something "wrong" with me, and I was the only one who did such things. I almost always need to be restrained in some way in order to cum. I spent 20 years of marriage hiding my self bondage/masturbation activities from my Husband. He always wondered why I only masturbated when he left the house. He almost caught me many times, and he couldn't understand why I was so secretive about it. Then 2 years ago or so, he found my scarves tied into slip cuffs and I came out to him. He was very accepting of it all and has tied me up many times himself since. But self bondage remains something I need to do for me.

tied-girl Wrote:It's funny, I always remember as a kid, if we played cowboys and indians, I wanted to be the one caught and tied to the tree. However, my first attempts at tying myself were around 13.

selfbondage Wrote:I started to experiment with selfbondage at the age of 6 - 7, but of course I didn't actually know what I was doing. It was the same time
when I used every chance to tie or get tied up and play with neighbourhood
kids. At some point it became to an escape and tying challenge with some
of the kids and I was pretty good at both sides of this game.
Guess a lot of people got an interest in bondage/selfbondage very young.

StuckInSB Wrote:I must have been 5 or 6. It all started with a remote control car that had a really long wire that went from the car to the remote. I would wrap it around my ankles while my mother would go watch her soap opera.

bondagekid_23 Wrote:I'd say I was around 12 years old when I first started tying myself up, although I didn't start taking it seriously until my late teens. As a kid, I had always been fascinated with examples of bondage in movies and comics and such, and I eventually got curious enough to see for myself what it was like to be tied up.

intentionallyblank Wrote:The first recollection I have of the urge to be tied must have taken place when I was about 8, somehow I persuaded a neighbour to tie me to the fence, but I expect that it goes even further back than that because I really wanted to be the captured and the prisoner and the interrogated in my childhood games.

DonaWhimpers Wrote:I started about 9 dressed in my mother's old black nylons with leather belts around my ankles and knees. Always with my penis pushed back out of sight between my legs pretending I was a girl. I would roll around and get turned on and sometimes even sleep like this. I then moved up to dressing myself up as often as I could but always with a bondage theme. Finally at fourteen and a half I went on a real date where I was dressed and tied and that started my desire to be a bound female as often as I could make it happen.

teasemeplzzz Wrote:Early teens for me, did not realise it was so popular till I discovered the internet though.

mchugh Wrote:I was in my early teens when I started...but my main thing was being bound for a whipping so I had to leave one hand free so I could whip myself with my belt.

s1300 Wrote:I recall to be fascinated by the toy handcuffs of my two year younger nephew. I was 7 at that time.
Ever since I have bin trying to make them my self somehow until I truly discovered my niche at 10.
That was when a few elder nephews and my brother decided to tie my arms and wrists together at my back and leash them short, to the sturdy rail of a church stairs in front of the main doorway, on a Sunday afternoon.

SelfBoundSlave Wrote:For me it started around 11-12. I can remember laying out my blanket from the bed. Rolling up in it and feeling the restriction. Took a pair of handcuffs that I picked up for a play in middle school to understand I my fetish side. Self-Bondage was the start to the fetish side life, but I am always expanding my experiences, ideas, and friendships.

zse4rgbhu8il Wrote:I really like to cocoon myself by rolling into blankets!
As early as 6 years old? I really like to dive into blankets and bed sheets. My mum is not pleased....

rocky0101' Wrote:At the age of eight a neighbourhood girl who was a well developed 14 introduced me to the torture the spy game. She had me tie her to a lawn chair while she was clad only in a two piece bikini. She instructed me every step of the way and when I was finished she could not even wiggle. The torture part involved pinching and tickling her to "make her talk". Eventually it was my turn to be tied to the chair and I fell in love with it. I started tying myself up every chance I got and enjoy it even more today

christopher97 Wrote:My first actual experiences started when I was 11; I used to tie myself up and have fun trying to escape. One time I tied my penis as well...in the struggling to get out I started to feel something very strange yet good...I had my first orgasm while tied up...the rest is history!

mrmikenomad Wrote:Its amazing how many of us started so young. I don't remember the age of my first self bondage but I remember playing cops and robbers with a a good friend of mine in grammar school plus my sister and i would tie each other up and see how long it would take to get untied. I had my first orgasm while tied which scared me because I didn't know what had happened, very vividly I remember the other sessions before that orgasm day. The liquid came out little bit during each session over weeks/months until the exploding orgasm.

Although I'm very open about my lifestyle, my family doesn't know about it well at least not exactly. I even brought up once the games my sister and I played to my sister and she had no memory of it at all. I was going to come out to her that day about the bondage but it floored me that she didn't remember. Its just funny how that happens. I can remember it vividly and she doesn't even know it happened.

cat4rin Wrote:I started in my 11-12s, but I not got serious until my 16s... it was when I discovered some funier ways to tie myself up in cross-dress

sub_elizabeth Wrote:I started young as well though I am not sure how young. I have many memories of wrapping rope or string around my arms and legs and enjoying the feeling of restriction. By the time I hit puberty, I had rope attached permanently to my headboard and would tie one hand up. The other had to be free to play with my nipples and clit. Mmmmm...... delicious memories.

darkeyes5011 Wrote:As a kid I was always fascinated with bondage. I was practicing self bondage at 5. Yup, at 5 I tied myself to a chair and had one of my older sisters walk in on me. That was a little traumatic, so I stopped tying myself up until I was about 15. When my parents were gone at work, I would bind and gag myself until it was time to go to school. Got pretty good at it too!