Self-bondage for the night scenarios

[Max515]

So far, I could not find a combination lock that I could not open without knowing the combination. I tried several.

[madjack]

Great thread and some interesting postings, but….

A common theme, and one I suffer from, is the inability to actually fall asleep whilst bound. I’ve tried on many occasions and the best I achieved was an hour or two of the sort of drowsiness you might experience on a long train journey – not fully asleep and not fully awake. This was when I used leg and wrists cuffs, a collar and chains to bind me. Not tightly, but very restrictively – hands couldn’t reach my ‘fun area’ nor could I undo anything without waiting for daylight (to undo combination lock) or a perilous trip down stairs (find keys to padlocks)

I’ve also attempted to sleep fully encased, again without success – the best I can manage to fall asleep in is a body stocking and/or multiple pantyhose with a lycra body on top. If I try to put anything over my head (hood, stockings or gag) I just can’t get comfortable.

My failures are generally down to two key problems:

1. I’m too turned on to sleep! Well, it is a thrill to be bound or, better still, dressed and bound, and as every man knows it is impossible to sleep with an erection!

2. I can’t get comfortable enough to fall asleep. All the ideas of being tied spread-eagle or being tethered to opposite corners of the bed are amazingly exciting but not, for me at least, comfortable enough for me to fall asleep.

In the past I’ve tried all sorts of things to help me achieve my fantasy:
- Exhaustive pre-sleep sexual play (ok – masturbation ) which cures the arousal problem but can leave me feeling so turned off that I can’t be bothered to tie myself up (again ).

- Getting encased hours before bedtime and letting the sexual rush wear off. This only works until I actually get into bed, and then I lie there thinking about… yup – SEX! Damn!!

- Sleep deprivation in the days before a planned session. This, you would imagine, should be the best plan – make yourself so tired that you’re incapable of sexual arousal for more than few minutes and that you simply can’t stay awake. Unfortunately I fail even this path to sexual snoozing. My record was 4 days of very mornings (up before 06:00), days full of self-bondage fun and physical exertion (I wish I had the chance to relive that week again!) and never getting into bed before 02:00. 4 days of 4hrs sleep and awesomely exhaustive sexual fun should have made this perfect for my plan, but…. I was by then so exhausted that I simply couldn’t find the motivation to play and slept for 12hrs straight… oh dear!

I still live in hope (though even the chance to try again would be fun) and wonder if others might have found a fool-proof (or should that be MJ proof?) method to achieve this wonderful fantasy?

MJ

[bondagelover]