It’s not about losing all the data from your website as a result of a hacker or FTC attack (see this post). Such “accidents” teach you to be flexible, to work 24 hours a day and to regularly make backups.

No, I’m talking about what media call “virtual social suicide”. When people destroy their own sites and/or wipe out everything from the social time-wasting-networks like Facebook, MySpace, Hyves or VKontakte.

Some cases have been mentioned here. For example, A.D.I.D.A.S (Megabondagedaemon) or Zentaoid. But now it’s getting more serious.

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Must confess, I’ve never been a fan of Alina Stalina (Алина Сталина, aka Perfect Pervert). I’ve never met her in person but did argue with her many times on one of the latex forums. No wonder, though, I think she was 15 at the time and our “points of view” differed a bit… But one thing we definitely have in common – love to fetish clothes, especially latex.

Must admit, she works with fantastic photographers, stylists, fetish clothes designers, and moreover, she’s a really good model. And the results are nothing short of stunning. (Here’s an example: a photo set in a latex dress with painted Khokhloma patterns.)

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What can surprise you in a dildo design and make you buy it? I mean dildos or butt-plugs you can use, not just put in a corner of your room to hang your clothes on or scare your friends and parents. (I’m not talking about Patrick Andraste, nothing can scare him ;-) Yes, yes, that’s pure envy ;-D ).

Built-in plugs? Chairs, stools, harnesses, clothes with built-in plugs. Yes, please. (See drawings below).

Material? Medical grade silicone is probably the best material with the only exception – it does not like silicone based lubricants and can’t be properly glued.

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Fetishes can take any form you can imagine. Have a look at this Aprilia mororbike commercial:

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Yes, another cry for help. See this post. What can you do if your partner is indifferent for your fetishes you can’t live without? In some cases simple rules (see this thread) can help. Sometimes…

Here’s some real cases.

Patrick Andraste from RubberBound.

Take the Kink Spectrum test and compare the result with Patrick’s. (Funny that he’s just published his list of fetishes he does not “understand”) Then ask your partner to take the test. It sounds funny or stupid, but as I mentioned earlier the test makes, for example, me and Patrick quite incompatible. He’s way too “advanced”, and I in comparison look like an innocent 12yo girl.

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The idea is based upon this technique. I bet you guessed what you are supposed to do with that thing on the picture? If not, see the zoomed-in version below ;-)

OK, now the description.
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… showed that I’m too vanilla for, for example, Patrick Andraste. I would bore him ;-D

This is my result:

Green (530 nm)
You scored 50% self-confidence and 49% bandwidth!

Quite predictable, since I’m not into pain, but into bondage and fetishism (latex, lycra, crossdressing, etc). And I do not like to deal with lots of people ;-)  Strangely enough, I scored only 57% on autoerotic. Self-bondage is mostly an autoerotic activity.
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As many of “us fetishists” I have quite a collection of photos and drawings downloaded from all over the Internet. I mentioned already that I like drawings more than photos. But sometimes you can find similarities between them. Not in pure terms like subject, pose, materials, bondage, etc, but in the feelings or associations they produce.

As an example: Masakazu Shimizu‘s drawing vs Patrick Andraste‘s photo. Despite a bit different “set up” (armbinder vs handcuffs) you get the same mixed feelings of fully enclosed in latex, inescapably bound yet absolutely free to go anywhere!

Patrick Andraste once wrote:

I try to get arrested every time I go out.
that or cause a car wreck.
so far I have gotten neither.
I have come very close on both though.

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What does make a photo a “fetish” photo? In other words, why (looking at a photo) do you say:

o- a true fetish photo
o- looks usual
o- typical pr0n
o- whatever

Why looking at a photo with a trussed gagged latex clad girl you may say:”I don’t believe it.” or “It’s not even crap. It’s plastic crap” or “Same… Always the same…”

But something simple like a stiletto heel with 3cm of a stocking clad leg makes you gasp? That was discussed many times at all possible levels, but the criteria, evaluation and results are still very subjective and based upon personal preferences, feelings, education, experience, imagination and so on.

In my case, imagination plays easily the most important role. There always must be some space for imagination. For example, I find drawings more “fetishy” than photos. (Also you may want to check the Imagined bondage series). And photos like these are much more sexy than any upskirt pics.

If you are still with me, let’s go on, who knows, probably we have the same “fetish patterns”? (That reminds me our discussion with Billy ;-) Click on [read more...]