Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 37. Did you have to quickly hide your fetish/bondage toys/clothes?

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Do you remember any cases when you had to quickly hide the traces of your fetish/bondage activity? For example, pull on “normal” clothes on top of latex and plugs and stay like that longer than planned? Or cover a pile of dildos/gags/enema gear with a bedspread/blanket and stay afraid that someone will sit on it and discover? Or when circumstances made you stay in public in pain (overly tight karada or pantyhose? too big butt-plug?), just like in the manga?

Do we need a separate forum thread for that?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 36. Bondage and self-bondage friends

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It’s very convenient to have a reliable, trustworthy bondage partner who can tie you up, etc (see Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 20. Bondage, self-bondage, trust and responsibility). If you have experienced and interested partners with similar interests (read fetishes), the sky is the limit. You can’t achieve that in self-bondage.

But friends with similar interests can be very helpful in self-bondage too. Not only for a good advice, but also for the safety reason. Just in case if something goes wrong and you do not have a backup release method, or that method fails, or if you stuck in a new suit (see, for example, My first shiny blue metallic zentai suit – I was barely able to get out, and it was pretty much hot outside).

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 28. Expecting unexpected and randomness in selfbondage and bondage sessions

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Another point. Expectations. Expectations is like prejudice (Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice). Very unfair, very painful: “You have not met my expectations”, “I expected more from you”. Did we both agree on the list of your expectations and signed it? No? F@#$%^&* off!

Bad expectations, on one hand, may help to prepare in advance or avoid unwanted events. But on the other, it may scare us off and we may miss unique opportunities.

I bet you all have dozens of real life examples, but let’s have look from a bit other side – from the bondage and self-bondage point of view.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 20. Bondage, self-bondage, trust and responsibility

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Another point. A very sensitive one. Can you trust your partner? Do you trust your partner? In such extreme sports as mountain climbing, diving, martial arts and bondage your life depends on your partner.

As you may already know, I do not like words like “top” and “bottom”, “master” and “slave” and especially “sado” and “ma[s|z]o”, because they assume inequality. I prefer “tori” and “uke” (see Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 17. B, (D), S&M and sport). In martial arts uke trusts tori that tori will treat uke with respect and control. Otherwise no training is possible. Both tori‘s and uke‘s fault might be lethal. A not well controlled blow may break a neck, a not correctly performed throw or fall may break a spine. Scary, isn’t it?

Unfortunately, lethal cases occur in the bondage scene too. From simple mistakes to ignoring the elementary safety rules. Two cases come to my mind. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 20. Bondage, self-bondage, trust and responsibility”

Self-mummification tutorial. Sticky sheet.

There are several ways of mummifying yourself. The one described in the pictures below looks seems quite self-explaining and easy to do, but … wait a bit. Let’s have a closer look at it.

What are you going to wear?

This is a very important question. Sweat makes the tape glue weaker (unless it’s a water-proof sticky tape) and the tape loses the ability to stick. This feature can be used to escape from the cocoon. I would not recommend to be naked even if you are totally epilated – the tape and the glue irritate the skin and may even damage it (think of you sensitive areas).

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Autoerotic asphyxiation fatalities and Breath control Art, plastic bags or thin transparent film. Part X

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That playing with breath control and especially alone is extremely dangerous knows everybody. We already know that as a sexual fetish such addiction to autoerotic asphyxiation cannot be cured by non-destructive methods (see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women post, I will very often refer to it). And we also know, that periodically some “cases” make their sad way to the news.

The following article was written by Arthur Albion and published on ParanoidLost.com

See 14 drawings and the article (I hate when referred materials disappear from the Internet, sometimes along with the whole sites, so republishing) below.

Oh, and please be careful when you are choosing your partner.

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Self-bondage (might go wrong) art. Part XV. Do not let this happen to you!

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From time to time we all neglect simple safety rules. All these preachings about “Do not smoke!”, “Going to drive – no alcohol”, “Wear protective gear”, “Red light – stop!”, “Read instruction before, not after” are sooooo boooooring…. But following them may save your life…

Everybody knows about selfbondage safety. But still we go for more risky scenarios, forget about or ignore backup release mechanisms or use not good thought out plans. Another good thing about art is that artists with good imagination can show the rest what it may look like if….

Please do not let this happen to you. Think in advance, stay calm and do not make statistics.

See 14 drawings below (you may already be familiar with some of them).

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6 year old boy found (self-)bound and drowned in bathtub. Demotivators of the day.

Sorry for another demotivating post about children and (self-)bondage, but it’s very related to my bathtub self-bondage experiments when I was a kid. In my case (fortunately) nothing bad happened, just ane event simply scared me.

But this boy was not lucky. Moreover, nobody knows what actually happened:

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Dead Reverend’s Rubber Fetish or self-bondage fatalities. Demotivators of the day.

Please play safely and do not let this happen to you.

An Alabama minister who died in June 2007 of ‘accidental mechanical asphyxia’ was found hogtied and wearing two complete wet suits, including a face mask, diving gloves and slippers, rubberized underwear, and a head mask, according to an autopsy report.

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