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“Homophobia – the fear that gay men will treat you the way you treat women”
This picture made my day. We definitely need more of them for every stupid social phenomenon. YEs, I know that the image does not cover all cases, but it’s a good beginning.
Source: Cheezburger
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See what happened in this chapter? Kaoru made Nana feel guilty and she surrendered to her fate. I should say that this is a very dangerous and very unfair practice (actually, like all manipulations), especially in a priori unequal relationships.
For example, an adult and a kid. One of the reasons why paedophilia is bad, and one of the reasons why the age of consent exists. Manipulations… A kid can be easily accused for something what might indeed have happened, but the reasoning was completely different, or there was no reason at all. Hey, it’s a kid! Then comes punishment. Then another one. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations”
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The inner bondage can be (and usually is) stricter than the outer one. A couple of examples.
A typical example is:”What will they say?” or “Nobody does this!”.
“I can’t wear it! What will my friends say?”, “I can’t pull up my jeans, everybody wear them under buttocks”, “I can’t wear these watches to the office. They are too expensive. What will others say?”
“I can’t wear these tight briefs (e.g. so called “speedos”) to the beach. Everybody wears wet buggy shorts sticking to legs and full with sand. What will other say?” Let alone wearing a one-piece swimsuit to the beach or pantyhose in public ….
The outer bondage does not prevent you from doing this. Most likely nobody notices or cares. But your inner bondage is always on guard. “I can’t go to the supermarket without make-up!”… Oh my…
Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 7. Inner bondage vs outer bondage”
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Third point – breaking out of bondage. Not literally in this case. We are born as absolutely free creatures. Kids have virtually no limits or restrictions, they are immortal. But with time the parents, the relatives and society do their work of limiting the freedom:
“Do not shout”, “stop crying”, “do not touch yourself there”, “you must/must not wear these clothes”, “boys do not do this”, “you must …”, “you must not …”, “you are not allowed to …”, “you are too young to …”, etc. Some of them are necessary to successfully co-exist and survive, some are unreasonable, some are simply ridiculous. And as a whole they create the “outer bondage”.
Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 6. Inner and outer bondage”
Do you remember my post “Fetish industry and fetish trends“? I tried to express my feelings about the current fetish scene, which seems to be diluted, blurred, spoiled by the pop-culture and dramatically aged.
I could easily be completely wrong, because I’m not directly involved in the events, however, my words were indirectly confirmed (at least, as I understood the article) by The Fetishistas:
Even though there is an overkill in kinky dance parties, a genuine fetish play party is hard to find nowadays. Continue reading “EuroPerve resurrection, DeMasK and fetish scene”
Have they got too much money so they do not know what else to do with them? Don’t they have problems enough?
Last week, the Senate passed SB 3310, a bill to update the state’s abstinence-based sex education curriculum to define holding hands and kissing as “gateway sexual activities.” Just one senator voted against the legislation; 28 voted in favor.
Continue reading “Kids, hand-holding and other sexual activities”
The old story continues (see related posts), but from a different perspective – some news from the inside.
After a few weeks of training, Amine Derkaoui, a 21-year guy from Morocco, worked as a content moderator for $1 an hour. His job was to view a stream of reported pictures, videos and post and either confirm deletion, unconfirm or escalate to a Facebook employee.
If in doubt – consult the one page cheat-sheet (attached). The full document is included below. Some interesting bullet points. The following is a definite no-no:
Continue reading “Facebook: no fetish , sex toys or sex cartoons in any form! Crushed heads are OK”
Have you ever asked yourself (or someone else? wow… ) questions like:
Sounds familiar, doesn’t it?
OK, as always, let’s go step by step. We will not focus on “why”, but rather on “what” and “how”.
Continue reading “Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women”
I made this photo in the German Alps in March. This image reminds me some Trevor Brown‘s works. Look at, for example, the studded latex pacifier (see this article).
Usually (like many subjects of Trevor’s art), pacifiers and barbed wire “do not mix”. The “public opinion” would immediately associate such a mix with violence, cruelty or even paedophilia, etc.
But, as you an see, nothing can be more innocent that the story behind the photo. A baby lost his or her pacifier. And a kind human found it and put it in the most visible place. The barbed wire guards either the private property or a piece of forest without foot paths.
See Part I
As I promised in the first part, I published my favourite drawing (along with 30 more below). The drawing on the left was the first Trevor’s work I’ve ever seen. And I was immediately bought by this fantastically cute, aesthetic, harmonic and surprisingly realistic combination of things (like bondage, innocence, latex, teddy bear, young girl, etc) never ever combinable in the real world. I immediately fell in love with this picture and started my investigation towards the origin.
Continue reading “Kids in latex, enfant terrible or Trevor Brown. Part II”