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Ohhh, I love this chapter… Many reasons.

First of all, it reminds me this post: Associations, triggers, crossdressing and forced feminization

Then, lots of my fetishes are fully “exploited” in this episode )pantyhose, bondage, swimsuit, public crossdressing, public bondage, forced feminization, etc.)

And finally it reminds me how I met my wife. It was a New Year improvised show for kids, where four guys (I was one of them) were dressed in kinda women’s clothes and were playing Santa helpers. My (future) wife put make-up on me. I was not wearing anything fetishy (no pantyhose, swimsuits or anything).

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As you know I love sheer shiny pantyhose, always wear them in public and always looking for new brands. Recently I have stumbled upon these photos on G+ (the only thing Google+ is good for). Have a look at the featured one. The shine is incredible! I’ve never seen anything like that!

What that can be? Good lighting? Probably. Two-three flashes can do miracles even with dull nylons. But it’s highly unlikely that the reflections are artificial. I’ve seen a suggestion that the pantyhose he’s wearing are Platino (Cleancut?).

I’ve never seen Platino Cleancut (35% lycra, silicone coated…) “in person”, but eBay photos are very interesting, and even there they are extremely rare and expensive. Strangely enough, they are made in Spain, but there is nothing on eBay.es: [read more...]

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Another point. How often do you hear:

“How can you wear that? Normal men do not do that!”
“How can you do that? Normal people do not do that!”
“Bondage? It hurts! Normal people do not like that!”
“I know what BDSM is! It’s about hurting people, making them suffer and treat them as slaves!”

But if you ask “Have you ever tried that?”, most likely the answer will be “Of course not! Normal people do not do that!”. Prejudice hurts… Yes, there are cases with “the point of no return”, when you obviously should “not try this at home”:

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… I was thinking about taking a bus to the city center, so I would not have a chance to hide my legs in pantyhose. It’s quite easy to jump in on an empty bus stop and spend the whole trip unnoticed. But then you have to get out, get to another stop, wait for the bus, get in. And all on the full view! Very self-bondage like, when there is no way back…

No, I never dared. My next big step was during our summer vacation. I put on very transparent suntan pantyhose, shorts, sneakers, a t-shirt and we (my wife and I) went for a short walk. It was twilight, the pantyhose were almost invisible, but when I noticed someone walking behind me, I pretended that I was busy with my shoe-lace. Yeah, chicken… But next evening I was more brave.

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You can’t get rid off the outer bondage without conflicts with the society or even with the law. You can only change it. By changing the society, geographical location, the club or your partner. Again, see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women. But you can diminish the influence of the inner one, but this is not an easy task.

Just like it’s not easy to do a back flip when you can do a simple somersault. Or relax when all your life you have been learning (actually taught) how to tense and strain. It’s a long step-for-step process.

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My wife made me a present for my birthday a couple of years ago – Wolford “Python” pantyhose, but I could not find an opportunity to wear them until the last warm days of this year. And, of course, I asked her to make a couple of photos. The sun already disappeared and was replaced by clouds and dripping from time to time water, so we had to use a flash to show what these pantyhose are capable of and a wide-angle lens to get around the space limits ;-)

As typical Wolford the “Pythons” are made with pantyhose-haters in mind. They do not feel like “usual” “nylons”. When you take them out of the envelope they look like cotton tights but feel like a strange construction made from jiggling springs (again, typical Wolford, I should say). They are soft and thick like a terry bathrobe, but when you pull them on they literally disappear. What’s left is warmth, softness and comfort. Again, nothing for “usual” pantyhose fetishists so far.

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“Why is this turning me on so much?”

Indeed, why am I turning on so much when I hear an idiom: “out of the blue”? In this case the answer is very simple – the reason is the drawing on the left. For some reason (erection in transparent pantyhose? high heels with ankle straps? mini-dress? a cute “girl”? I can easily imagine myself in this situation? all together? ) I found this picture so exciting so my perverted brain picked up the most “standing out” expression out of the text. And whenever I hear or see it, it gives me goosebumps and a twitch in my sheer shiny pantyhose ;-P

Have you got such triggers? Let us now!

See the full story below (or on the picture) and the following related forum threads:

• Bound men in feminine clothes and femdom fetish art
• Self-bondage, fetish and children (or how it began)
• What gets you into a self-bondage mood?
• Men in pantyhose

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After playing with CB6000 and going through all related frustrations (see CB6000 and types of frustration), checking chastity belt reviews, visiting manufacturer sites, reading multiple forums, I decided to try to make a do-it-yourself chastity device with the following in mind:

• comfortable for a long time wear
• comfortable to wear even under tight clothes like pantyhose, swimsuits (cb6000 is a disaster)
• impossible to pull off (one of the most common problem with commercial CB’s)
• lockable
• easy to make (I do not have much time for such “design projects”)
• reliable (again, something what cb6000 is absolutely not)
• cheap

At first sight absolutely unreal and incompatible conditions. However, as I said in “DIY/hadware vs sex-shops and some food for kinky thoughts. Part I“, pay a visit to the biggest hardware store in your area and spend there an hour or two. That may give you some interesting ideas.

This is what I managed to make for €4 using a file, a screwdriver, a knife and pliers within about 1 hour.

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My kids got used to my pantyhose, swimsuits and various fetish talks, but from time to time very interesting dialogues occur.

Son: Your pantyhose shine too much.
Me: Cool, isn’t it?
Son: Yeah, but don’t you have pantyhose with no shine?

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Found another photo of this guy in pantyhose, mini skirt and high heels (thanks to Biflex).

Actually, it confirms my idea of “good looking”: if you are in a good shape, it does not matter what you are wearing.

See also Men in pantyhose forum thread (the most popular forum thread).