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Two good points:

1. Before “applying” a new tool on your partner you always must try it by yourself. So selfbondage comes handy here.

2. Can BDSM (mostly DSM) relationships be used during normal family life with your partner? Or do they exclude equal roles that normal, stable, long-term-oriented partnership “should” have? Or are they intended to compensate deficiencies and various (e.g. inferiority) complexes?

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I noticed that more “fetish and bondage” artists place their works on eBay. Indeed, very convenient for both parties. “Plain brown paper” and “no questions asked” from one side and ability to dig out something worthy, matching you furniture or just matching your fetish preferences to stir up your fantasy and imagination.

See below 40 minimalistic drawings from Erotic Fine Art eBay gallery.

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The site is hosted by Linode and has been recently upgraded! The new goal is $480 yearly.

Thanks much again to those who already donated!

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Were you ever in such situation when you had to speak to someone, you are not quite familiar with, to finally stop the spiraling down? No, I’m not talking about doctors or professional psychoanalytics. Just more or less ordinary people like in the manga?

Did (do) you use the Internet (e.g. forums) or do you prefer a live person? Or probably it was/is you who helped lost guys/gals to find themselves?

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Indeed… I always work. I always do something. I do not know what “spare time” is. “Spare” from what? If I’m not doing anything, that means I’m sleeping. And if I need to add something to my list, the task with the lowest priority goes off my list. I want too much. I need to do more. I can’t keep up. 24 hours is not enough. I’m close to panic. I’m close to break down and burn out.

The only “way out” for me is sport. Regardless anything, 4-5 times a week I must be in the dojo. Sport clears my head.

And periodically I must be tightly “coated” by latex, tightly plugged, tightly gagged and tightly bound.

Ohh… I desperately need THAT kind of a breather ….

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Ohhh, I love this chapter… Many reasons.

First of all, it reminds me this post: Associations, triggers, crossdressing and forced feminization

Then, lots of my fetishes are fully “exploited” in this episode )pantyhose, bondage, swimsuit, public crossdressing, public bondage, forced feminization, etc.)

And finally it reminds me how I met my wife. It was a New Year improvised show for kids, where four guys (I was one of them) were dressed in kinda women’s clothes and were playing Santa helpers. My (future) wife put make-up on me. I was not wearing anything fetishy (no pantyhose, swimsuits or anything).

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On one hand, it’s very interesting to know/understand what caused or triggered my interest in bondage, self-bondage, gags, rubber, swimsuits and pantyhose. I think I discovered the fun when I was 4 or something.

On the other hand, I love my fetishes, they do not bother or annoy me and I do not want to be “cured”, like I stated here.

What is your story?

See these forum threads:

Self-bondage, fetish and children
How it Began (kids and fetish)

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How many people does it take to insert a suppository and then pull out the finger? The manga suggests at least three, but the most interesting thing is the side effect of this procedure. A wiggling finger in your anus… Hm…

And here’s are the actual questions:

• How did you discover butt-plugs?
• How did you dare to try one?
• At what age did you first tried to insert anything on your rectum?

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Two more points. Ever tried stretching? It does not matter what king of stretching: for splits, for deep-throating, for dildos or butt-plugs. There are two cornerstones: relaxation and breathing. If you stop breathing, you will tense, if you are tensed, the contracted muscles will not allow you to go further.

And if you do not know how to relax, there is a good method – you have to tense the corresponding muscles with all your force for, say, 20 seconds, then relax, then repeat. The muscles will eventually tire and relax. And this is the moment to apply some stretching force (but not too much!)

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Here’s a way to turn your fetish into a stylish piece of art for your (home?) office or house. Have a look at bronze bondage sculptures (and see 31 photos below). Looks quite stylish and respectful, does not it?

You can “tune” the desired effect by changing the view point and the position of the sculpture. And, by the way, did you notice that some of the girls have stockings on? ;P

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