Everyday life Bondage
but without Dominance, Submission and Masochism
Is it possible, you might ask? I’ve already mentioned, that from BDSM I accept only the “B”. I do not like pain, I do not want to be humiliated, punished or dominated, I do not like role playing. Just comfortable sensual bondage and fetish clothes.
Bondage of fetish clothing in public? Yes! Not because I’m an exhibitionist, but because the same reason – I like it. If there was nobody outside my home I would go out bound and gagged, clad in latex, zentai and high-heels. Just what I sometimes wear at home, where nobody can see me.
Going to the shop wearing high heels, latex minidress with long sleeves, single glove and penis-shaped gag? Yes, please! But in a town, city, village, place where this is accepted, not frowned upon, not shocking (see, for example, Fetish Gyms) . And, of course, I would like to look aesthetically pleasant.
Today I was literally awed with amusement (hey, can I say that?) that there is a brilliant artist who could catch and show these feelings in his drawings. His name is Grigbertz. I’ve just discovered his site, I haven’t read (yet) all the wiki’s, plots and stories, but I read the comments to the cited images and they second my thoughts.
Grigbertz’ girls obviously enjoy and even proud their bondage and do not see it as a humiliation or burden for either themselves or the others (see, for example, the market series and “Lisa and a maid”). The bound elbows do not seem to bother them at all. Whether they are taming a dragon (nice reference to King Kong), speaking to a local gang, cooking, buying food on the markets or asking for a free room in a guest house.
And, actually, why not? The crazy fashion has adopted collars, latex, corsets, chains, masks, very high heels, very short skirts, going out in just pantyhose or lingerie, so bound elbows and surely naked body do not sound extraordinary perversive.
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but without Dominance, Submission and Masochism”
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of course one has to understand we are not in a perfect world. if you walked out the door in bondage gear, would you ever see your door again? With say, yout hands in cuffs, behind your back, and leg cuffs on, your open for an attack from anyone, and anyone may have ideas that sure isn’t yours.
Comment :: March 14, 2009 at 07:36 :: Quote
You can’t be sure even without bondage or anyone around. Here’s an example. A couple of days ago I made a wrong step and badly twisted my ankle. Result? I have crutches standing behind me. Not sure for how long.
Comment :: March 14, 2009 at 14:41 :: Quote
To me, concealing my self-bondage is exciting. I love walking to town wearing a tight zentai under ordinary shirt and jeans. A ginger butt plug keeps me focused and very aware of what is happening to my body. (If you haven’t explored figging, google “figging ginger”. It’s hot!)
Another favorite game involves a 1 3/4 inch chrome egg. I run a 2 foot long light nylon through the egg and tie it off. Then I stretch a condom over the egg, lube my rectum, and insert the egg. The twine hangs between my legs. I tie a 1 pound lead weight to the twine. Then, I put on my jeans and the rest of my clothes. The weight hangs down in one pants leg.
Then I walk to a public place like a grocery store or coffee shop. The swinging lead weight and the 17 ounce egg slowly tire my anus. I have to really focus to keep the egg from slipping out.
The sensations from the swinging weight are delightful, but soon it takes all I’ve got to keep the egg clamped in my ass. But, since I don’t want to have to explain why this contraption just clattered out of my pants, I have to strain, hard. Great fun!
There a lot of ways to enjoy self-bondage in public!
Comment :: April 5, 2009 at 16:05 :: Quote
How about casts and braces. Everyone will look and stare at someone with two long arm casts on, and depending on how restrictive (covering all the fingers?) it can be very restictive? ANd they don’t suspect its public bondage!
The most restrictive I’ve done this in public was probably dinner with both arms in casts and slings which tied my arms to my chest and a neck brace on.
Comment :: June 15, 2009 at 10:07 :: Quote
[...] a barely noticed functional part of… Especially with matching clothes. Got the idea? No? See this post.
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